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The Secrets To Stress-free Change
By Matthew Roberts
In life, you can easily recognize change. You either embrace it, or reject it. Acknowledging and accepting change already gets you a long way in accepting change. However, if you are still having difficulties in handling it, here are some suggestions that you can do:
1. Evaluate yourself and try to understand your reactions to change. Are you the type of person who resists change or are you the type who dives in and becomes excited when it comes? If you can understand how you react to change, you can interact with others better during the difficult times.
2. Transition is a part of the process of how you deal with change. It has three stages: a) endings –the grieving stage of the good old days; b) the neutral zone –a stage of ambiguity and not sure of the new way; and, c) new beginnings – a stage when the coast is clear, and you are ready to accept the new things on the way.
If you can identify which stage you are in, then you can understand better on what you need to do. It is important to be aware of this because other people might be experiencing also the same change as you have. It is always better to know you are not alone in adjusting to new things. It makes the transition better.
3. Be careful in responding to change and transition. People’s ways are habit-forming and they often develop routines. Disruptions can be nerve-wracking and can stir up emotions – mostly of the negative kind.
Ask yourself questions in handling change like: a) purpose – reason for the change and why the changes?; b) picture – result of the change, the destination; c) plan – how to get to the next stage?; and, d) part – the role that you are about to play and where do you position yourself?
4. Help others. Since you know how to handle change in your life, it is time for you to help others who are the same situation and are struggling with the changes in their own lives.
Furthermore, to help you sharpen your ability to handle change and to provide you with some self-help therapies, here are some ways to soothe and calm your nerves:
- Do some physical activities like sports and exercise. This will help release pressure from your body.
- Share feelings and thoughts that cause you stress. If you think your problem is something serious, you may want to ask for professional help from a counselor or psychologist. Be aware of when to ask help.
- Set boundaries. If you think you cannot handle the situation, do not fight it and learn to accept it until the time that you already have the capacity to change it.
- Always remember to take care of yourself. Never neglect what your body needs and learn to read your body’s signals. Eat well and get enough rest.
- Have fun. Do not overwork yourself and schedule some time for recreation. Stop and take time to smell the roses.
- Be a participant. Do some volunteer work in your community to help you divert your attention to something worthwhile. You can also meet new friends along the way.
- Try accomplishing your list of tasks. The tendency for stressed people is to forget about important tasks. List them all down so you do not forget what needs to be done.
- Do not play the Mr. or Ms. Right all the time. Give and take is the best setup you can find at this time.
- If you want to cry; cry. Crying is a healthy way of releasing pressure and stress.
- Relax. If you feel tired of your environment, make that escape by reading a book or creating music to bring a sense of peace and tranquility.
- Never attempt to do self-medication. This can cause more harm than good for you.
Changes in life may leave you burned out but with a little help from yourself you can make a whole lot of difference. Indulge yourself once in a while to distress yourself. Accept change and adapt. That is how people live and survive.
By: Matthew Roberts.
Article source: http://www.articledashboard.com
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