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If you fear rejection, you may have wished there was a way that you would never get rejected by anybody, ever again.
I’m here to tell you today that there really is a guaranteed way that you can avoid rejection. If you follow this method, you can absolutely guarantee that you will never be rejected by anyone again, not for a date for coffee, not for friendship, not for romance.
Are you curious to know the absolutely certain way to make sure you never get rejected again?
Here it is: The way you can be totally rejection-proof is if you give up absolutely all interactions with other human beings for the rest of your life!
That’s it! Don’t interact with other people. Don’t talk to them. Don’t socialize. Don’t try to make friends. Don’t try to date anyone.
Just stay home. Be alone. That’s it.
That is the only way you can avoid occasionally getting rejected by other people.
Is giving up all social interaction something you are really willing to do just to avoid the risk of sometimes getting rejected?
There are some cases of people who adopt this option because they don’t want to get rejected. They end up living completely alone because the prospect of social rejection is too much for them to handle. However, for most of us, avoiding all human interaction is not a price we are willing to pay just to avoid getting rejected.
If we stop interacting with other human beings, we will miss out on all the potential warmth, comfort, fun and excitement that other human beings can offer us.
Most of us are willing to take the occasional risk of rejection by others because the rewards of being close to other people are far greater than the risks.
Getting rejected by others can be scary and it can feel humiliating. We are out of control, because we cannot control how other people will react to us.
However, we can control our own selves. We can control our reactions and we can control our own thoughts. We can find ways to make the experience of rejection much less painful.
Sometimes when we make social overtures to other people, we get rejected by those people we really wanted to be friends with. There may not necessarily be a good reason for it, but it happens to everybody.
We don’t need to condemn ourselves when we are rejected, and we don’t need to stop interacting with other people just because there is a chance they might reject us.
Remember, if you never put yourself in a situation where someone can say “no” to you, you will also never be in a situation where someone can say “yes” to you.
By Royane Real
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