By Royane Real

Do you have a desire to become a good conversationalist?  Perhaps you have wanted to improve your conversation skill because too often you run out of things to say, or you seem to say the wrong thing to people.

Everyone can improve their conversational ability. 

To be a good conversationalist there are a few positive things you need to do more often.  There are also a few negative things you need to avoid if you want to have good conversations with others.  

The most common conversational blunders include talking too much, especially about yourself, and not listening to the other person.

Watch that you don't make a few of the most common conversational errors.  These include such mistakes as trying to take over the conversation and making yourself the chief topic of the conversation or the chief know-it-all.

A friendly conversation with another person won’t really work very well if you spend your time trying to convince the other person that you are really much smarter about everything than they are. They won't like it if you point out all the ways that they are wrong.   People won’t look forward to talking to you again if they think you are arrogant.  

Avoiding many common conversational mistakes simply requires common sense and common courtesy. 

Do you have to be perfect every time in order to become a good conversationalist?  Not really.  You have to let yourself make mistakes. Otherwise, you’ll be too scared to try.  Being too scared to talk to other people in case you make a mistake in conversation would be even worse than talking too much.

Being perfect all the time just isn’t possible for humans.  So, let yourself have some leeway. 

If you notice that you are making a conversational mistake such as hogging the spotlight too much, or interrupting constantly, don’t criticize yourself for it.  Instead, simply remind yourself to keep quiet once in a while.  Be sure to let your partner have some high quality attention while they are talking. 

Make the effort to genuinely listen to your conversation partner.

This will impress them more than anything else you could say.

( The above introductory comments were written by conversation expert Royane Real )

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